It seems like everyone has a boyfriend nowadays. You might feel like you're the only one who doesn't have a boyfriend. Maybe your parents won't allow you to date, or maybe you just haven't found the right guy yet. Well guess what, you're not the only one. I don't have a boyfriend either. Most of my friends don't have boyfriends. But let me give you a piece of advice. Don't get into a relationship just because everyone else is in one. Your friends may be pressuring you to get a boyfriend, but just don't do it. Don't do it until you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that this is the guy God wants you to be dating. God has a perfect plan for your life [For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11]. Don't ruin his plan so that you can have the temporary satisfaction of having a boyfriend right now. You don't need a boyfriend to make your life complete. So many people think that they do. But our life isn't completed by people, it's completed by God, the author of our life. Your self-worth isn't defined by whether or not you have a boyfriend. It's designed by God. If you just go out and get a boyfriend just because it's the norm and everyone else is doing it, you won't have the true satisfaction of knowing that you're following God's desire for your relationship. Only God can give you lasting satisfaction. You may be satisfied for a short time, but you won't get lasting satisfaction unless you are trusting God that he knows what is best for you in the dating department. He knows when the right time for you to have a boyfriend is, and he knows the exact person who you are going to date and marry. Don't ruin God's plan by rushing ahead into a relationship.
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